Let’s Have a Baby! Surrogacy for LGBTQ Family Planning
My son was born by a gestational surrogate. The process was a whirlwind for my husband and me. We had to think about things like how would we find an egg donor? How much would this cost in total? Would our attempts fail? Or would this take years to have a baby? How would we […]
Queer Family Planning: A Introductory Guide
If you’re a queer person, LGBTQ family planning may seem like a monumental feat. It already takes more energy to navigate everyday life when you come up against challenges that have to do with your identity. Because of the bigotry that’s built into our societal systems and portrayed in our media, you may not have […]
How Marriage for Same-Sex Couples Impacts Their Financial Plan
Marriage for same-sex couples has recently come into the media spotlight after Justices Thomas and Alito attacked the 2015 landmark decision to legalize it—a reminder to all of us that this important freedom is still on shaky ground. But even so, recent updates in LGBTQ demographics show that in the past five years same-sex couples […]
What happens if something happens to me?
Right now, one question is in the back of everyone’s mind: What happens if something happens to me? It’s a question we tend to ignore in “normal” times. We think to figure out morbid things like making a living will or power of attorney sometime down the road. But in the wake of a public […]
Why I Decided to Work with an LGBTQ Specialty
Fifty years ago this month, we will celebrate the seminal event that brought the LGBT rights movement to the forefront: the Stonewall Riots. Even though the LGBT rights movement began decades before the riots, this event catapulted LGBT people into the national spotlight. It is because of these brave men and women that people like […]
LGBTQ Family Planning
No matter what your family structure, deciding to start a family is a momentous decision. But for folks in the LGBTQ community, that step can look a little different than for a cis-gendered, heterosexual couple—especially when it comes to finances. Given the higher potential for surrogacy and adoption, the financial impact on LGBTQ family planning […]
Estate Planning for LGBT Couples
Let’s face it—planning for an eventual illness or death is an unpleasant topic that most couples avoid. But estate planning for LGBT couples is imperative because of one single reason: if you’re not married, you have no rights. Without legal documents, you can’t protect each other in illness, pass along your assets, or guarantee that […]
Talking About Money With Your Partner: 5 Questions To Ask
Picture this typical scenario: Sara and Joan have just gotten married and want to buy a house within the next year or two. They’ve had some initial discussions about their mutual finances, but lose steam when the conversation becomes complicated. Sara hasn’t given Joan the actual figure of her student loan debt, and Joan hasn’t […]
Same Sex Couples’ Rights: Four Things to Know
One of the unique things about being a part of the LGBT community is that same sex couples don’t follow any strict conventions. Families come in many forms: from marriage to domestic partnership and co-habitation. Some have kids, some don’t. No matter what form your family structure takes there are some important things for you […]