What Are the Money Stories We’re Telling Ourselves?
I won’t survive without a full-time job that pays benefits. I’m going to cling for dear life to whichever job I’m lucky to get. People go broke if they go even a moment without full-time work, so if I ever do need to leave my job for whatever reason, I need to have something else […]
What Happens When You Embrace Your Money Regrets
We’re all familiar with the motto of living with “no regrets.” It means you should always make choices that you can live with for the rest of your life. And when you don’t … well, we’ve all seen that scene in a movie when someone is on their deathbed wishing they had spent less time […]
What is a Money Script? And What are Yours?
You would think that, as a financial planner, I would know my own money script. After all, money is what I think about almost all of the time! But, maybe not surprisingly, I didn’t know what I thought I knew about myself and money until I took a course on money scripts. As I’ve reflected […]
How Will This Crisis Change You (And Your Financial Plan)?
The recent global pandemic has thrust one thing to the forefront in our lives: uncertainty. Uncertainty over whether our health will be impacted or not. Uncertainty over what the fallout will be. Uncertainty over what life will look like after shelter-at-home is lifted. It is a defining moment in all of our lives. It is […]
The Next Millionaire Next Door: A Book Review
The Next Millionaire Next Door: Enduring Strategies for Building Wealth by Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D. and Sarah Stanley Fallaw, Ph.D. There are countless books available about “how to get rich”: Invest in this fund, buy this piece of real estate, whatever. Don’t you find them all a bit… out of reach? I know I do. […]
Talking About Money With Your Partner: 5 Questions To Ask
Picture this typical scenario: Sara and Joan have just gotten married and want to buy a house within the next year or two. They’ve had some initial discussions about their mutual finances, but lose steam when the conversation becomes complicated. Sara hasn’t given Joan the actual figure of her student loan debt, and Joan hasn’t […]